Premarital / Marraige Preperation Counseling
NorthPoint Premarital counseling is designed to help couples become more aware of what
marriage is and what it takes to succeed in it. NorthPoint Premarital counseling provides couples
with the right tools to grow and build a strong marriage. Couples will focuses on topics such
as: Strengthen Communication Skills; Role Expectations; Conflict Resolution Skills; Explore
Spiritual Beliefs; Identify any Problematic Family of Origin Issues; Develop Personal, Couple
and Family Goals just to name a few. NorthPoint incorporates the Prepare and Enrich marital
assessment tools which research studies have demonstrated prepare couples for a lifetime in
marriage.
Sessions / Fees
Whether you are engaged or considering becoming engaged, now is the time to prepare
for a lifetime in marriage. NorthPoint's Premarital Counseling provides one of the greatest
investments in your future as a happily married couple!
NorthPoint's premarital program consists of (5) couple sessions and the PREPARE inventory.
To schedule an appointment, call NorthPoint Professional Counseling at 800.773.0514. Appointments available Monday-Saturday (8:00a - 9:00p).
Our premarital package is $395.00. Cash, check, or credit card accepted. Payment can be made
in one or two installments to suit your personal budget.
More Information
As divorce rates continue to rise in the United States, more and more couples are approaching
marriage with increasing caution. While Americans are still opting for marriage, many are
looking for opportunities to damage-proof their relationships before they say "I do." Premarital
counseling is one of the most effective ways to prepare for a lifetime in marriage.
What is Premarital Counseling?
Premarital counseling, like any couples counseling, is facilitated by a professional therapist. The
function of premarital counseling is two-fold:
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To assist couples in developing skills to navigate their way through marriage successfully
- To identify (and if possible resolve) areas of difference between couples that may
become a source of conflict later
Ideally, before your first session, you and your partner will be given the opportunity to take an
on-line (easy-to-use) self-report inventory that will help explore your relationship's strength and
potential growth areas such as Communication, Conflict Resolution, Personality Differences,
Partner Style and Habits, Financial Management, Relationship Roles, Leisure Activities, Family
and Friends, Relationship Dynamics along with Spiritual Beliefs in the privacy of your home.
Common discussion topics include:
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Interests and Activities (Leisure)
- Role Expectations
- Partner Style and Habits
- Idealistic Distortion
- Interpersonal Communication
- Spirituality
- Marriage Expectations
- Family Issues
- Finances (Financial Management)
- Children (and Parenting)
- Sexuality and Affection
- Conflict Resolution
- Relationship Dynamics
- ... and more
When Should a Couple Seek Premarital Counseling?
We believe it is never too early to start your premarital program. In fact, we recommend every
serious dating relationship can benefit greatly by participating in our premarital program. Listed
below are some helpful guidelines.
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When you are young and have never been married
- When one partner is "commitment-phobic"
- When a couple cannot resolve significant issues (if a couple has disagreements regarding
money, parenting, household responsibility, work, sex, etc. the time to resolve them is
before marriage)
- When one or both partners have a previously failed marriage and want to avoid repeating
the same mistakes
NorthPoint's Premarital Counseling On-Line Assessment - Benefits Couples in
Many Ways:
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Couple can take their on-line assessment (private and confidential) from any location
with internet access.
- Reports are customized and personality relevant to each couple.
- PREPARE primes couples for exploring deeper into their relationship.
- Conversation is stimulated when couples see their Couple's Report
- Couples get help identifying relationship strengths and potential issues.
- Couples learn useful relationship skills they can apply to current and future issues in their
relationship.
NorthPoint Director/counselor John Sternfels and Kathy Tosoian holds a certificate in
Prepare and Enrich marriage and premarriage training.